Welcome to Marriage Counselling Services in Surrey by Kevin Rymill
Providing Sensitive and Collaborative Psychotherapy for Couples
Marriage is a significant commitment, and when a relationship begins to break down, it can be devastating. My integrative psychotherapy service offers sensitive and collaborative marriage counselling in Surrey. If you are experiencing challenges in your marriage, you’re not alone, and seeking help can be the first step toward healing.
Common Marriage Problems
Everyday stresses and strains, such as health and money issues, can cause a marriage to begin to crumble. It can be easy to sweep problems under the carpet and pretend everything is okay, even when you know it isn’t. Sometimes, it is difficult to remember how and when things started to get so bad. Feelings of frustration and loneliness can lead to anger, fear, or sadness.
There are many reasons why marriages suffer. You may have tried various ways to improve things over the months or years. One effective way forward is to try marriage counselling.
Signs You Might Need Marriage Counselling
If you notice any of the following signs, you may be experiencing relationship or marital troubles and could benefit from marriage counselling:
- Breakdown in Communication: Conversations often lead to misunderstandings or arguments.
- Unexplained Anger or Depression: Negative emotions arise without clear reasons.
- Feeling Alone: You feel disconnected or isolated within the relationship.
- Lack of Intimacy: Physical and emotional intimacy is lacking or difficult.
- Trust Issues: There is a lack of trust or no trust at all in the relationship.
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Is Counselling Right for You?
Counselling offers a way forward by increasing your awareness of how you feel and exploring what has gone wrong in a safe and sensitive environment. You can’t start to put things right unless you increase your understanding of each other. This understanding, and finding new ways to communicate, has proven to be extremely effective in marriage counselling.
I like to see each person from a couple for one individual session prior to seeing you together. This is because each individual often has a different view of what has gone wrong and different expectations of the marriage. These individual appointments are confidential.
A skilled counsellor with extensive experience in Integrative Psychotherapy, such as myself, can help you reconnect with your partner while building a deeper, more meaningful relationship.
When Should You Consider Marriage Counselling?
- Arguments Never Seem to End: Conflicts arise frequently without resolution.
- Betrayal of Trust: Issues such as debt, secrets, or affairs exist.
- Feelings of Abuse, Loneliness, Fear, or Anger: Negative emotions are pervasive.
- Considering Separation or Divorce: One or both partners are thinking about ending the relationship.
- Desire for Happiness: One or both partners want to feel happier in the relationship.
- Rebuilding Trust: You want to discuss your issues to rebuild trust and create a stronger relationship.
What You Can Expect from Me
I pay very close attention to what is really going on in your relationship, and you can expect experience, training, and intuition from me.
When you come to me for marriage counselling, you can expect a warm, empathetic, and supportive environment where your relationship can truly thrive. I am deeply committed to understanding the unique dynamics of your partnership, and I use my experience, training, and intuition to help you both navigate the complexities of your relationship.
I believe that every couple has the potential to deepen their connection and rediscover the joy and intimacy that brought them together in the first place. My approach is all about fostering open communication and strengthening the bonds that unite you. Here’s how I can help:
- Building Effective Communication: Together, we’ll explore ways to enhance your communication skills so that you and your partner can express your thoughts and feelings openly and honestly. This not only helps in meeting each other’s needs but also builds a solid foundation of trust and understanding.
- Practicing Deep Listening: I’ll guide you in the art of listening attentively to your partner, allowing you to truly understand their perspective and emotions. This deep listening fosters empathy and creates a safe space where both partners feel heard and valued.
- Removing Blocks to Connection: We’ll work together to identify and overcome any barriers that might be hindering your ability to connect with each other. By acknowledging these obstacles, we can pave the way for more meaningful and heartfelt interactions.
- Resolving Conflicts Gracefully: I will equip you with tools and strategies to navigate disagreements and conflicts with respect and compassion. My goal is to help you resolve issues independently and transform challenges into opportunities for growth and connection.
- Defining Shared Goals and Dreams: Together, we’ll explore what you both want from your relationship and how you can work collaboratively to achieve these aspirations. By aligning your goals and dreams, you can create a fulfilling partnership that brings out the best in both of you.
- Rekindling Intimacy and Connection: Intimacy is an essential part of a loving relationship. I’ll help you rediscover the joy of physical and emotional closeness, creating a bond that is both deep and enduring.
Through our sessions, you’ll find a supportive ally in me, dedicated to helping you build a relationship that is strong, loving, and resilient. I’m here to walk alongside you on this journey toward a more connected and intimate partnership.
How I Can Help You
As a professional counsellor with extensive experience helping couples, I offer various counselling services tailored to your unique needs. My approach is inclusive and respectful of all relationship types. For more information on any of the services offered or for a discussion about how I can help you, please do not hesitate to get in touch with me.
- Phone: 01932 702662
- Email: kevin@kevinrymill.co.uk
- Book an appointment
Appointment
Book online to make an appointment for the treatment of your choice, or for an initial consultation.
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Practice Location
Located in Ottershaw, Surrey, my practice is situated near to the M25, Woking and Weybridge, and is easily accessible to those in the surrounding areas.